Have you sought out your editor for advice?
I wasn't getting a lot of feedback early, but I started sitting over my editor's shoulder (when possible) while he edited my story. We talk about specific changes, broader concepts about angles and leads and basically critique my writing.
He didn't do it until I sat there and said "hey, let's talk, but I've gotten tons of good information out of it and think I've grown as a writer.
I also ask whoever reads my story first how it read. I'm sure they get fead up with it, but my reasoning is hey, how else am I going to know?
It takes a little time out of your day and a little effort chasing them down some nights, but it's well worth it.