I have. Born and raised small-town Midwest.
Then you understand it, and I'd certainly take your stance against it more seriously than someone who hasn't.
My experience is like this.
In my previous unemployed state, I didn't have a hell of a lot to do this fall. What I
did have was 13 Friday nights to go to my hometown, or wherever the hometown team was playing. I'd make the 50-mile drive in late afternoon, meet up with one of my oldest friends and grab dinner. Then we'd go to the stadium and I'd catch up with 15-20 other people who I haven't kept up with nearly as much as I should have over the years. Old friendships are rekindled. We see how our lives have branched out.
It's not all about high school football. It
is all about high school football. It's about the quarterback, at halftime of a 17-17 ballgame, trotting along the edge of the field, slapping hands with 9- and 10-year-olds who want to be him. It's about your sophomore running back showing some raw skills, and you and your buddies begin wondering where his talents might take him a few years down the line. It's about community pride, the way you knew it once.
And I know -- of course I know -- that if it's hurting our young people, it's not worth it. I just want to be sure that the people making such decisions also realize what would be lost.