dixiehack
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Found out this weekend that my daughter is going to be the flute section leader this coming year in her high school band. As a sophomore. Kid’s got some serious chops.
Sounds really good. If you can, go find a piccolo and get her to adjust to that - at least from time to time. For marching season, a piccolo is 10x more effective on the field and in the stands.Found out this weekend that my daughter is going to be the flute section leader this coming year in her high school band. As a sophomore. Kid’s got some serious chops.
She had talked about that as a possibility but now that she is section leader she wants to stick with flute.Sounds really good. If you can, go find a piccolo and get her to adjust to that - at least from time to time. For marching season, a piccolo is 10x more effective on the field and in the stands.
Congratulations.Yesterday was a very good day. I was inducted into a Hall of Fame, which I didn't really feel worthy of when the original announcement was made a year ago. But it felt really good to have people say a lot of nice things about me and my work. It felt even better to have my wife, parents and brothers there with me. Seeing how proud it made my parents was the highlight of my day.
Man, if you need some music to that, let me know. I’d be happy to work it up for you.Having an autistic soon-to-be teenage son is a roller coaster ride, to be sure. Yesterday, he got in trouble at school when he lost his temper and flipped a chair in the direction of another student. He starts middle school in the fall and has been on edge, as has most of his class, for a few weeks now.
I took him to the skate park to blow off steam after school, and we talked about stress and how to deal with it in healthy ways. During that conversation, I told him how I took up running (instead of drinking) to relieve stress, and I ended up running marathons because I had to keep running farther and farther to keep the stress/anger at bay.
He came to me right before he went to bed last night to show me a song he wrote about our conversation. It was the most incredible thing I’ve ever seen him create. It was about how no one has to deal with this alone, and he’s leaned on me so many times that he’s ready for me to lean on him for a while. While that was never my intent, words can’t describe how much it meant to me.
Now we just need to set it to music so the awards and record sales can come pouring in.![]()
Holy hell, this is amazing. First, it's amazing for the parenting you did in the moment. Second, it's amazing for all the love and parenting you've done in the past that led to the moment of him showing that to you.Having an autistic soon-to-be teenage son is a roller coaster ride, to be sure. Yesterday, he got in trouble at school when he lost his temper and flipped a chair in the direction of another student. He starts middle school in the fall and has been on edge, as has most of his class, for a few weeks now.
I took him to the skate park to blow off steam after school, and we talked about stress and how to deal with it in healthy ways. During that conversation, I told him how I took up running (instead of drinking) to relieve stress, and I ended up running marathons because I had to keep running farther and farther to keep the stress/anger at bay.
He came to me right before he went to bed last night to show me a song he wrote about our conversation. It was the most incredible thing I’ve ever seen him create. It was about how no one has to deal with this alone, and he’s leaned on me so many times that he’s ready for me to lean on him for a while. While that was never my intent, words can’t describe how much it meant to me.
Now we just need to set it to music so the awards and record sales can come pouring in.![]()
Trade you a bucket of fire ants for a half pound of thoseWith all the negative stuff going on, sometimes it takes a simple thing to make you feel good.
Like picking cherries. My wife loves to turn them into jam and freeze them for wintertime ... and that's a good thing, since we picked over 40 pounds this morning! (Cherries are super easy to pick -- especially when the trees are full and they're right at eye level. Hence the expression in basketball).
The darker, Bing cherries will be used for jam, desserts, etc. The yellow and red Rainiers will be eaten fresh. They're my favorite fruit, and when you eat one right off the tree it melts in your mouth!
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That must have been wonderful, MC! Sounds like it was a terrific, so-worthwhile conversation, for both of you.My daughter and I used to bake/cook together every weekend. As she’s gotten older and we’ve been trying to eat better, that has kind of fallen by the wayside. I still meal prep on Sundays, but she’s usually off doing her own thing now.
Today, out of the blue, she decided to help me with the prep. We took a few hours and made a bunch of breakfasts and lunches, and talked about life and what we’re going to do on a staycation in two weeks, what she’s looking forward to when she goes back to school, how she feels that two of her best friends are PCSing this month, and a bunch of other things.
She’s not always the most forthcoming person when it comes to processing her worries. She’s like me in that regard. She also often feels like she has to take a backseat to her autistic brother’s drama.
So it was great to have her open up to me again, just the two of us.
What is PSCing?