Good point about asking someone else for an honest opinion about your resume, job skills, etc.Whether you ever apply anywhere or not, it's worth finding a good career coach and spending a few bucks so they can help you freshen up your resume. If nothing else it makes you realize what skills you have that are in demand and can help you frame the discussion at your current shop when looking for a raise or promotion.
Whether you ever apply anywhere or not, it's worth finding a good career coach and spending a few bucks so they can help you freshen up your resume. If nothing else it makes you realize what skills you have that are in demand and can help you frame the discussion at your current shop when looking for a raise or promotion.
Ageism is and always was there. The hedge IMHO is whether you provide something that is unique to you and that sets you apart. Somehow I realized that for me to survive in my field I needed to develop my own work and not rely on anyone else to bring me work.
This is definitely out there ... about 6-7 years ago, when I was in my 40s, I applied for a position at a newspaper whose editor was more than 10 years younger than me. I was never directly told I was too old, but I remember being asked in a second interview if I was comfortable working with, and for, people younger than I was.It was there, but not obviously and blatantly so, or commonly so.
The ladder of progression in careers used to lead, naturally, to middle-aged and older people being the middle and senior managers, because that was the logical way of things. Now, it is not uncommon for the 20- and early-30s group to be the managers, and the older folks to be the subordinate workers.
Things are backwards now, in a lot of places. Experience and maturity used to be valued. Now? Not so much. The upward movement on career paths is generally much faster now.
Really good talk today. A quote from the interviewer: "I don't need to ask what you would bring to the team, or your skills or your strengths or any of that. I know all of that about you."
Sounds like an excellent beginning to the process.Really good talk today. A quote from the interviewer: "I don't need to ask what you would bring to the team, or your skills or your strengths or any of that. I know all of that about you."
"You're exactly who we're looking for. Unfortunately, we have to go with an internal (cheaper) candidate."Really good talk today. A quote from the interviewer: "I don't need to ask what you would bring to the team, or your skills or your strengths or any of that. I know all of that about you."
"You're exactly who we're looking for. Unfortunately, we've been told by management that we're not filling the position.""You're exactly who we're looking for. Unfortunately, we have to go with an internal (cheaper) candidate."
This is probably worse. Even if no one beat you to get the job, the process was a giant waste of time."You're exactly who we're looking for. Unfortunately, we've been told by management that we're not filling the position."
Heard that one myself about 20, 25 years ago. Still stings.
Same. Twenty-one years ago from Key West, Fla."You're exactly who we're looking for. Unfortunately, we've been told by management that we're not filling the position."
Heard that one myself about 20, 25 years ago. Still stings.