Becoming a vegetarian

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I have no objection to the inhumane slaughter of animals for meat, nor have I been sold on the health benefits of cutting out meat from my diet. Circumstances beyond my control -- my girlfriend has decided to take the plunge and she's the only one around here who cooks -- dictate that I will probably, for the most part, become a vegetarian. Anyone ever done this before? What should I expect?
 
You should expect what's remaining of your shriveled up balls to die and fall off the vine...

OR

You could grow a sack, learn to cook a little and not let your sloth dictate your eating habits :)
 
Expect not to eat meat, poultry or fish, and if she tries to be a vegan, no dairy or egg either... It's kind of that simple.

Not sure why her eating habits have to dictate what you eat, though. I dated someone on and off for seven years and I was a vegetarian the whole time. She wasn't--she mostly ate seafood, which I won't touch (and yeah, it does gross me out, but I somehow got over it because I wanted to be with her).

It wasn't an issue between us. It doesn't have to be an issue, unless either person dictates that their eating habits have to be the eating habits for both of you. I actually had my own pots and pans to cook in. But other than that, I was easy-going enough to say, "I can control what I put into me. I am not going to try to control what she puts into herself." I cared for her for other reasons, I guess.
 
Sounds like your goose is cooked.

Got no experience being a vegetarian. Maybe you can still inhumanely slaughter animals just for fun, though.
 
It's not sloth, it's what I consider an equitable division of labor. Plus, it's not that I don't get any enjoyment out of cooking, it's that I am actively repulsed by the activity.

Ragu, I wasn't implying that there would be an issue between us. I'm not resentful at all. It's not like I ever said, "I'll give up meat when you pry this T-bone from my cold, dead hands." I just wanted to know if anyone had ever made the transition and noticed any tangible difference in their physical well-being or energy level, etc., as the veggos claim.
 
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You are repulsed by cooking?

I bet you really hate cleaning.
 
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Ace said:
You are repulsed by cooking?

I bet you really hate cleaning.

I don't mind cleaning. I do the dishes and the bathroom, and I get the stuff off the high shelves, move heavy objects and take out the trash.
 
FirstDownPirates said:
Ace said:
You are repulsed by cooking?

I bet you really hate cleaning.

I don't mind cleaning. I do the dishes and the bathroom, and I get the stuff off the high shelves, move heavy objects and take out the trash.

so cleaning the toilets is ok, stirring tuna and mayo together is repulsive?
 
Inky_Wretch said:
How are you repulsed by cooking? That's the oddest thing I've ever heard.

Not in the sense that I'm disgusted, but I just really hate the process. Perhaps it is an idiosyncrasy, but I doubt it's the oddest one you've ever heard of.
 
Cooking is one of my greatest joys in life. You're weird. ;D
 
You know every food you love? Yeah, well, they're all gone. That was the toughest part for me.

I have nothing against vegetarians, but I hate that if you go to a restaurant and she wants to share a side-dish, there cannot be meat near it. I had a bad experience with nachos once; I've told the story before, so I won't do it now.

I suggest you learn to deal with cooking. I was with the vegetarian for seven months -- I was with her longer; she was a vegetarian for trendy purposes -- during college and breaks from school, so cooking really wasn't an issue with us. It only got to me when wing nights would come around and I'd hear the bitching because she couldn't go, so "it's not fair" that I get to go.

Cook together. You might enjoy it.
 
forever_town said:
Grow a pair. Learn to cook.

The third person to say this. When did cooking switch from being woman's work to manly man's work?
 
FirstDownPirates said:
It's not sloth, it's what I consider an equitable division of labor. Plus, it's not that I don't get any enjoyment out of cooking, it's that I am actively repulsed by the activity.

Ragu, I wasn't implying that there would be an issue between us. I'm not resentful at all. It's not like I ever said, "I'll give up meat when you pry this T-bone from my cold, dead hands." I just wanted to know if anyone had ever made the transition and noticed any tangible difference in their physical well-being or energy level, etc., as the veggos claim.

Sorry. Well, I am really biased. But yeah, I am certain I am healthier for the way I eat. But I am not sure how I can quantify that for you.

I have been a vegetarian for more than 15 years, so its hard for me to even remember anything different. But I have especially been on top of it the last year, during which I cut out all dairy and egg, too (I rarely ate eggs, actually, but did eat things occasionally with egg in it), and have taken what I put into myself ridiculously seriously. My diet pretty much consists of whole grains, beans, brown rice, every vegetable you can imagine, etc. I also have upped my intensity of exercise. I was always pretty active, but I have been more serious about the way I go about it the last 8 or 9 months and been running my ass off. And I feel great physically (even if I am still all mental!).

I'm pushing 40 and I am in better shape than I have ever been--even when I was in my teens and 20s and I played sports and it came relatively easy for me to stay thin. I can't quantify it, by saying, "I get sick less," etc. You can eat as healthy as possible and still get brain cancer. But I know that by eating a low-fat, healthy diet--which I do by default--and by making sure I am not overweight and doing things that have been proven to be unhealthy, I am reducing my risk of certain things, such as diabetes, stroke, heart disease, etc. I do know that when I go for my annual check-up, my doctor tells me I am doing fine. My blood pressure, my weight, my cholesterol, etc. are always at great levels.

I guess the main thing I'd really stress is that healthy eating isn't as simple as just being a vegetarian. You can be a vegetarian and still eat like crap. If your diet is all bleached flour and processed foods with lots of saturated and trans fats, and heaps of cheese piled onto everything, and you consume more calories than you burn off, you are going to be overweight, clog your arteries and feel like crap. And you can do that without eating meat -- really easily. But being a vegetarian is not bad for you, if you do it right. If you choose smart foods and watch what you eat and take care of yourself in other ways, it is very healthy for you.
 
Like the others said, grow a pair and learn to cook.

Then, it will only be a matter of time before you're posting on the "My favorite Broadway musical" thread.
 
FirstDownPirates said:
forever_town said:
Grow a pair. Learn to cook.

The third person to say this. When did cooking switch from being woman's work to manly man's work?

When the rest of the universe abandoned "traditional" stereotypes. Actually, my wife and I usually cook together, so it's not anyone's "work" (and I wouldn't consider it work, anyway).
 
FirstDownPirates said:
forever_town said:
Grow a pair. Learn to cook.

The third person to say this. When did cooking switch from being woman's work to manly man's work?

That's not how I intended the sentence. ::) Men have been cooking for years, even when it was "woman's work."

Part of being an independent adult is learning to cook for oneself. If you'd like to have some control over what you put in your mouth, you have to get over whatever repulses you about cooking and be ready to prepare your own meals. Hell, I don't cook that often, but when I'm by myself in the house, I cook most of my meals.

I remember a former roommate specifically taking me aside and making me cook until I got to a point where I could do it. He learned by watching another roommate who already knew how to cook.

It isn't about being manly or womanly. It's about being an adult.
 

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