A few weeks ago I went to a hockey game with a friend. As he was driving his phone rang and he grimaced and he said he needed to take it. The guy on the other end instantly just starts rambling and I have no idea what he's talking about but I did pick up he was wandering a grocery store after getting arrested the night before about 50 miles away and then taking a bus back to the store. My friend hung up and said he had to call the guy's parents to let them know where he was. Then he told me the full story. The guy is in his mid 40s, drugs, mental health problems, tons of arrests, some violent incidents. He's the kid of my friend's neighbors, who are in their 80s. The dad thanked my friend for calling and you could just hear the anguish in his voice. They've apparently been getting the guy help for decades and it just never fully sticks and as I listened to the whole thing it was just so depressing and I was thinking, there's no way it ends well. Whether it's for the parents or the kid.
And of course I know a few other families with similar situations. You just never expect it to reach the level of violence as with the Reiners but for the poor families dealing with issues like this I'm sure it's something that haunts their thoughts as a possibility.
It's been mentioned a lot online but the first seven movies he directed are just stunning: Spinal Tap, The Sure Thing, Stand By Me, The Princess Bride, When Harry Met Sally, Misery, A Few Good Men. The hours of enjoyment I've gotten out of watching those--since I've watched pretty much all of them a dozen or more times or dozens and dozens when it comes to Tap, Stand By Me, Bride and A Few Good Men--is incredible. And while he didn't reach those heights with his feature films lately, he still did great work as an actor and with things like the Albert Brooks documentary, which was fantastic. And that's not even getting into his activism. RIP to Rob and Michele.