RIP, Bobby Dower

[Johnny Dangerously]

Bobby, the former sports editor of the American Press in Lake Charles, La., was diagnosed less than a week ago with stomach cancer. He had a turn for the worse overnight, and things appear bleak today.

He's as good a human being as you'll ever meet, in this business or any other. Those of you who know him already know that. He could use your prayers, thoughts, positive energy and encouragement, even if you're not able to communicate those directly to him.

I won't have access to the site much longer today, but I encourage any of you who know Bobby to contact anyone you know at the paper or elsewhere who can give you more details and suggestions on how to leave a message of support for him. I will try to post appropriate updates when I can.

He's a good man who doesn't deserve any of this. Thinking of you, Bobby.

 

[Colton]

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My best to your friend, JD...

 

[Mark2010]

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Holy crap. Just interviewed for a job with Bobby less than a year ago. Didn't get the job, but I immediately liked the guy.

He didn't seem ill at the time. In fact, he was very vibrant and full of energy and seemed like a guy I would have loved to work for.

 

[steveu]

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Aw, crap. JD, my prayers to his family. Cancer sucks. No two ways to say it.

 

[Johnny Dangerously]

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The cancer is very advanced and aggressive, according to the last report I received. He's not in pain, thanks to the medication, but what we've all been hoping for does not seem possible now.

 

[Johnny Dangerously]

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The Louisiana Sports Writers Association has rallied around Bobby, with many of the old guard visiting his hospital room and turning it into an LSWA convention of sorts. Last night, the Louisiana Sports Hall of Fame presented him the 2015 Distinguished Service Award in Sports Journalism, apparently bending or breaking just about all of its bylaws to do so. Seeing the look on his face in the photo of him receiving the award in his hospital bed is just priceless.

The email says there were 27 people in his room when he was presented the award, setting a hospital record. I'm so proud of the LSWA and the Hall of Fame folks (there's some overlap there) for showing such love and support for Bobby at this time, and for recognizing the lifetime of work and passion he gave to the profession. If any of you read this, know that it hurts me to not be able to be there with Bobby and all of you right now, but it's such a blessing to know him and all of you and feel the goodness in each of you -- years ago in person, and now from afar.

I know it means a lot to Bobby, as do all of you.

 

[Mark2010]

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That's awesome. Not the illness, of course, but the outpouring of support and affection.

 

[SoCalDude]

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A salute to JD and Louisiana scribes for doing a really great thing, even if it meant screwing the rules.

 

[Johnny Dangerously]

Bobby died at 4:19 p.m. Central time.

RIP, Bobby.

 

[steveu]

Aw hell.

Screw you, cancer. And RIP to Bobby and my condolences to his family and friends.

 

[Mark2010]

Man, that sucks.

 

[CarlSpackler]

It's brutal. He seemed fit as a fiddle and his same old self two weeks ago. And he made it a week when they gave him a day. That's as fitting a way I can think of for Bobby to go out.

 

[Johnny Dangerously]

Managing Editor Dower dies at 62
BY JIM BEAM
[email protected]  
Longtime American Press Managing Editor Robert Louis “Bobby” Dower, died at 4:19 p.m. Wednesday in a local hospital.
Johnson Funeral Home will announce arrangements.
Dower, 62, joined the American Press staff in 1971 and in 1976 was promoted to sports editor. He became news editor in 1993 and managing editor in 1996.
As managing editor, he was chairman of the American Press editorial board, edited the Sunday Talk section and handled letters to the editor. Dower also helped supervise other members of the newsroom staff.
Dower had been in the hospital for two weeks after being diagnosed with stomach cancer.
Scooter Hobbs, who became sports editor after Dower, said his close friend “passed on pretty much the way he always lived — with class, contentment, acceptance and uncommon good cheer.”
Although he became an accomplished editorial and news writer, Dower never lost his love for sports. Members of the Louisiana Sportswriters Association showed up in his hospital room and presented Dower with the 2015 Louisiana Sports Hall of Fame Distinguished Service Award in Sports Journalism.
Officials with the association said Dower had refused for years to let them put his name on the Hall of Fame ballot, but they “waited until he was too weak to fight us on it and overruled him.”
Although he had no idea the award was in the works, Dower surprised the record 27 people in his hospital room with off-the-cuff remarks about his professional career.
Dower said his parents’ emphasis on the importance of education “led to a career that I loved. I got paid to go to sporting events. Can you imagine what that’s like for somebody who loves sports as much as I did? It’s unbelievable.”
Dower borrowed a quote from former New York Yankees great Lou Gehrig, who died from ALS.
“ ‘Today, I am the luckiest man on the face of the Earth.’ I don’t think I’ve ever written an original line, but tonight I’m the luckiest man in the world,” Dower said. “I want you all to know that and only because of the people that I have surrounding me and the people that have loved me. Thank you, thank you, thank you.”
Dower was a 1970 graduate of Lake Charles High School, where he played drums in the Wildcat Band and ran track. He received his B.A. degree in 1974 from McNeese State University. He was active for years in Lake Charles High reunions.
Dower was a former member of First United Methodist Church of Lake Charles and was a member of its Wesleyan Hand Bell Choir from 1962 to 1971. He lived in Crowley with his wife, Ann Tobola, and was a member of the First United Methodist Church there.
During his tenure as sports editor, Dower covered four Super Bowls, one Final Four and a number of regional and national sporting events.
Dower was a big fan of the Chicago Blackhawks of the National Hockey League and recently attended their games. The jersey of Jonathan Toews, No. 19, a center for the Blackhawks, was hanging in Dower’s hospital room.
Dower was a former president of the Louisiana Sportswriters Association, on its Hall of Fame selection committee and a board member of the Louisiana-Mississippi Associated Press Managing Editors Association. He was also a past president of the Advertising and Press Club of Southwest Louisiana.
Among Dower’s survivors are his wife; their children, Katherine and Hunter Dondero of Lafayette; a sister, Beverly Swanson of Austin, Texas; and two brothers, Tom F. Dower of Houston and Richard K. Dower of Rosenberg, Texas.

 

[Johnny Dangerously]

A more personal look:

Beginning to end, Bobby marched to his own tune

SCOOTER HOBBS
Executive Sports Editor

Bobby Dower was probably too young when he became sports editor of the American Press at the ripe old age of 24.

It showed, perhaps, when the first official hire he made was, well... me.

But other than that mishap, Bobby Dower was the rare, contented soul who could truly go to bed every night without a single regret about that day or the one before it or the one before that.

That’s tough to pull off.

Unless every day, whether it’s productive or not, you just do the right thing and to the best of your ability.

It’s not complicated. Work hard. Be honest. Treat people right.

That was Bobby Dower from the first day I met him until I said a final, tearful goodbye at the hospital Wednesday afternoon. Bear with me. I could go on and on. This is going to be a tough one, but I’ll try not to choke up. Again. I don’t want to get syrupy. So I will tell you that Bobby was an unapologetic “cat person.” There, I got the only flaw I can think of out of the way early. Don’t say I didn’t give it to you warts and all. He was only two years older than me when I showed up fresh out of (mostly skipping) college in a strange city for an actual job. And he was the same from the first day I walked into the old office downtown on Broad Street. Solid. I was a young and enthusiastic know-it-all and also quite dumb. He was young and enthusiastic and always mature beyond his years. He didn’t have a lot of experience at the time, I had none. But they gave him a sports section to run and he was on top of the world. He loved him some sports, and he loved newspapering even more. He just knew we wanted the sports section to be more and, to be honest, we kind of figured things out together as we went along, Bobby always in the lead. It was fun, exciting. We studied bigger newspapers, talked about it at work, ran ideas past each other after work at various haunts and odd hours. We both had some crazy ideas for shaking up the status quo, some nuttier than others, mostly mine. A lot a trial, more than a few errors.

But one of Bobby’s great strengths, always, was in deciphering which of my lame-brain notions was near-genius and which of them might get us both fired, or arrested.

Even at the end, a million years later, when two years age difference is miniscule, he was always the big brother, the guy you knew would have your back, pick you up on bad days and celebrate the good ones louder and prouder than anybody.

And do the right thing.

I don’t know why this still sticks out because it was long ago and it wasn’t a huge deal, really just a passing comment.

But one day he’d overheard some of us sports staffers as we called high school coaches to write previews of the upcoming Friday night games.

Toward the end of the day, he observed, with just a slight touch of irritation, that, “I notice when you guys call the second coach, sometimes you tell him what the first coach said. I’m not sure that’s fair. If you’re going to do that, you’ve got to call the first coach back and tell him what his opponent said, too.”

Not a big deal. But, as always, he was right. Always was. He was going to be fair. I don’t think it was a conscious effort. It was just the way he thought.

He never tired of sports, but he did move over to the news side of things, leaving the sports section to me.

Well, not really. He still spent as much time in the sports department as in news, and I spent at least (my favorite) half hour of each day in his fancy news office, running things past him.

But when he moved over to news side, he inherited many of the duties of the late Buddy Threatt.

Chief among those, especially on weekends, was hanging around after the newsroom’s night crew had evacuated, waiting for the mighty presses to rumble and roll and — most importantly — then delivering a dozen or so fresh-off-the-press papers to Papania’s. They were gobbled up by LCAP and civilian revellers alike for cursory glances before everyone returned to solving all the world’s problems. Least ways the ones Eddie behind the bar couldn’t figure out.

It wasn’t a glamour job. Given your druthers, you’d prefer to get that head start.

But Bobby relished it — and not, I suspect, just because he was as good as any to give the next edition one last look-see before sounding the full speed ahead to the press crew.

No, when he strode through the doors at Papania’s delivering the goods, you’d have thought he was carrying in the crown jewels. And in his own mind, he probably was.

Nobody — and I mean nobody — was ever more proud of where he worked and what he did for a living.

Nobody sang the praises of a family-owned newspaper louder.

Nobody was more protective and prouder of the daily product — nor more conscientious about making sure he stayed proud of it — than Bobby was about what showed up on your doorstep every morning.

I can say without reservation that he was the most loyal foot solider this company has ever had. Foot soldier might seem like an odd term for somebody who spent virtually his entire career as an editor (boss) of some sort. But that’s the way he looked at his life’s calling. No matter the editor’s job he had, he did it without complaint, did it well, did it to make sure the product he was so proud of would benefit. I could ramble on and on about the sounding board that was Bobby, the wise sage for younger and younger reporters.

Somehow, though, that’s not the Bobby I’ll remember.

Bobby, probably the conscience of the American Press, was also the guy who’d stride into the office lunch room during one of the frequent, ladies-only lunchtime birthday parties and announce, “The entertainment is here! Who wants to see me dance?”

He was a guy who literally whistled while he worked.

Or at least he whistled — mostly various fight songs but also some old standards —while he walked around to do his “visiting” in the newsroom, just checking on everybody to see what was going on.

It sure made it hard for him to sneak up on anybody.

One year for his birthday, the art department took a CD and dressed it up with a “Bobby Dower Whistles the Classics” cover that would have been worthy of a latenight infomercial. His also sang a little bit, by accident I think. You’d get bits and pieces, almost as if he’d stop dead when he realized what he was doing... and the torture. “It’s beginning to look a LOT like Chrisssssst-mas ...” seemed to be the go-to tune. That would usually be in April. Never did figure that one out. But it was Bobby being Bobby, so why question it? Or maybe with his optimism and enthusiasm, every day was Christmas. He certainly knew the holiday.

As one former employee’s now-grown child texted him at the hospital last week, “You were the best Santa ever.”

The annual party the American Press would throw for worker’s offspring was probably his favorite day of every year.

He was Santa Claus, and for the most part he pulled it off, although there were incidents.

My own Jennifer, for instance, was maybe 4-years-old when she confronted me after getting her bling from that year’s affair. “You said Santa Claus was going to be here,” she said defiantly. “That was Mr. Bobby.” She knew him too well, perhaps, but rare was the employee’s child who didn’t visit the office and light up when they saw Bobby, Santa suit or not. He knew them all. They all loved him. So did their parents. So did everybody, it seemed, even in a job that usually breeds enemies. I’m trying to figure out why, exactly, and maybe I’m over-thinking it a bit. Maybe it’s simpler than that. Try this. He was, honestly, the most inherently decent person I’ve ever known. I just wish I could hear him whistle one more time.

 

[Liut]

Thanks, Johnny. RIP Mr. Dower.

 

[Colton]

So very sorry for your loss, JD.

RIP, Mr. Dower.