CradleRobber
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Don't worry, she's 19.
Last Thursday, I hooked up with THE HOTTEST girl I've met in two-plus years of school. It was very random, not something I even thought about until it was actually happening.
I would have and should have probably let it go as a random, once-in-a-lifetime, alcohol-fueled thing, but for some reason, I can't.
Before things got crazy, a group of her sorority sisters, two girls from another sorority and one of my soon-to-be frat brothers were discussing how none of us had seen Superbad, yet we all wanted to. We exchanged numbers and she said she would text me the next day and we'd all go.
I wasn't sure exactly how drunk she was, but I guess it was good that she smiled at me when she woke up in my arms rather than jumping off the couch and asking me what my name was. I definitely didn't expect her to still text me about the movie, since her sisters made her feel pretty awkward about the night. She's so far out of my league, and everybody treated it that way (especially the 20-plus Greeks who took pictures and laughed as she walked over to me by the pool, sat on my lap and started kissing me.
To my surprise, she did text me the next afternoon about the movie. Two of the girls from the other sorority and I got there a few minutes early (other guy didn't go), but she and her friends were 15 minutes late and couldn't find us in the theatre (I didn't even see when they came in) so we sat seperately.
After the movie, the six of us are standing out front of the movie in a very awkward situation. There's a lot of silence, nobody is saying much, then we all walk to the parking lot and leave, the three of them following 10 feet behind us the whole way. It was one of the most painfully awkward experiences of my life.
I know I shouldn't still be stuck on it, but I am. I sent her a Facebook friend request today, and she accepted it and added details for me to confirm: "We met randomly: Random drunken night with tequila, haha"
Clearly, we both see it for what it was and that's it. But now that I'm finally in the Greek system, and I'll be seeing a lot of her, I feel like I really want to see her in a more sober environment.
My closest girl friend said she thought she might actually like me, but also said that after getting to know her through sorority stuff, she has "half a personality." That really only made me want to find out for myself more. I know she's shy, and the other night was very uncharacteristic of her, from what I've been hearing.
So, wise minds at SJ, do I a) play it like a *****/smart guy and forget about it like I do every other time I have a thing for a girl considered way out of my league b) call her, text her, Facebook her about getting another group together for a movie to do it right or c) something else?
Gotta love anonymous message boards. Hopefully a few more people don't put me on ignore for this thread, I think I just really needed to type this out to feel better.
Last Thursday, I hooked up with THE HOTTEST girl I've met in two-plus years of school. It was very random, not something I even thought about until it was actually happening.
I would have and should have probably let it go as a random, once-in-a-lifetime, alcohol-fueled thing, but for some reason, I can't.
Before things got crazy, a group of her sorority sisters, two girls from another sorority and one of my soon-to-be frat brothers were discussing how none of us had seen Superbad, yet we all wanted to. We exchanged numbers and she said she would text me the next day and we'd all go.
I wasn't sure exactly how drunk she was, but I guess it was good that she smiled at me when she woke up in my arms rather than jumping off the couch and asking me what my name was. I definitely didn't expect her to still text me about the movie, since her sisters made her feel pretty awkward about the night. She's so far out of my league, and everybody treated it that way (especially the 20-plus Greeks who took pictures and laughed as she walked over to me by the pool, sat on my lap and started kissing me.
To my surprise, she did text me the next afternoon about the movie. Two of the girls from the other sorority and I got there a few minutes early (other guy didn't go), but she and her friends were 15 minutes late and couldn't find us in the theatre (I didn't even see when they came in) so we sat seperately.
After the movie, the six of us are standing out front of the movie in a very awkward situation. There's a lot of silence, nobody is saying much, then we all walk to the parking lot and leave, the three of them following 10 feet behind us the whole way. It was one of the most painfully awkward experiences of my life.
I know I shouldn't still be stuck on it, but I am. I sent her a Facebook friend request today, and she accepted it and added details for me to confirm: "We met randomly: Random drunken night with tequila, haha"
Clearly, we both see it for what it was and that's it. But now that I'm finally in the Greek system, and I'll be seeing a lot of her, I feel like I really want to see her in a more sober environment.
My closest girl friend said she thought she might actually like me, but also said that after getting to know her through sorority stuff, she has "half a personality." That really only made me want to find out for myself more. I know she's shy, and the other night was very uncharacteristic of her, from what I've been hearing.
So, wise minds at SJ, do I a) play it like a *****/smart guy and forget about it like I do every other time I have a thing for a girl considered way out of my league b) call her, text her, Facebook her about getting another group together for a movie to do it right or c) something else?
Gotta love anonymous message boards. Hopefully a few more people don't put me on ignore for this thread, I think I just really needed to type this out to feel better.
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