Moving cross country, any advice?

[Googlaw]

So I'm moving. Across the country. I'm riding solo with just my tape deck, broken heater and trunk full of everything I own. I'm looking for advice, pointers, lessons learned, things to avoid or just humorous anecdotes to keep me awake. See you on the roads!

 

[sportschick]

I did it. If you're Northward, fix your heater. Trust me on this.

Feel free to PM me. I did the move with cats. It was awful!

 

[dixiehack]

I'm riding solo with just my ... broken heater ... I'm looking for advice

 

[HandsomeHarley]

Don't.

Period.

OK, rent a top-of-the line moving company. Don't try to do it yourself and don't rent a cheap one.

I speak from experience.

 

[Bad Guy Zero]

Check your local library to see if they have a copy of The National Highway Exit Authority. It lists very gas station, food establishment, shopping mall, lodging, etc. within 1/4 mile of every interstate highway exit in the country. Use it to plan your trip out ahead of time. You'll thank me when you don't run out of gas on some barren stretch of two lane interstate that runs 38 miles between exits. Neither of which has a gas station within a mile of the interstate.

 

[Cosmo]

I've done it twice ... you save a lot of money if you pack a cooler and fill it with lunch stuff. My last cross country trip, four days in a U-haul, I only ate two hot meals. Ate a lot of cold cuts at rest areas.

 

[HandsomeHarley]

OK, I had a family to move.

1. If you're going solo, I agree on fixing the heater. It's likely just a heater core, which you could put in yourself depending on your car (a friend and I changed ours in a Cavalier, but had to go under the dash to do it).

2. Take your time, if at all possible. Check maps for things such as scenic stops, malls (if you're a shopper -- Hi Sxy!), flea markets, antique shops, whatever.

3. Enjoy the drive. Starting a new job is stressful, so this will be the most relaxing you will be for a few months.

I drove my wife an 3-year-old daughter from Orlando to Oregon, and had our stuff moved by a cheap moving company (I was scared to death to drive a truck that big). The bastards stole some of our stuff, and since we stuck most of it into storage, didn't know it for a while.

I drove my then 10-year-old daughter (and her damn gerbils, which she accidentally let escape the cage once) from Oregon to Kansas in as large a truck as I was daring to drive (I got bolder in my old age, but I refused the larger truck and had to leave some stuff behind). That was a ****ing nightmare.

Pulled our minivan on full tow while driving the truck. Road work in every state. And the sign on the truck said not to exceed 45 mph, but the damn truckers wouldn't let me go less than 60. Scared the **** out of me on those one-lane bridges with those bastards right on my ass with their brights on.

Then drove across Kansas with a larger truck, which burned oil like crazy. Three stops to put oil in it (after fearing I burned it up). Thought I could get there with $100 for gas money. Spend that 30 minutes into the trip. Mom-in-law wired us money to get the rest of the way.

Hellfartdamn, I hate moving.

 

[deskslave]

I will never again tow a car behind a moving truck. Either I get movers, or I do what I did last time and throw as much as I can fit into the car and leave the rest behind. (It helps that the furniture I was leaving was free ... and ugly.)

Nothing as fun as cruising down the interstate and suddenly having trucks on both sides of you, pulling you in both directions. 7 miles per gallon, slow as all hell. Oh yeah. Good times.

 

[Frank_Ridgeway]

Nearly croaked myself by driving 800 miles in one day. Only time in my life I nodded off at the wheel and came inches from a concrete thing where they were doing some highway construction. Fortunately I was driving through a decent-size city, so I pulled off at the next exit and checked into the first motel I saw, a HoJo.

I've driven across the country twice and the papers gave me a per-diem, although with one paper you could spend more one day and less on another as long as it all worked out to the budget. I ate cheap for lunch and ate someplace expensive for dinner. Would stay someplace cheap one night, someplace great the next.

You're probably not going to drive this too many times because it's a really, really long ride, so my advice is Experience America! Don't eat at McDonald's -- go native wherever you are.

As for music, the first time I did it, the paper paid to have the movers pack me and they got almost all the cassettes. I set off with just the two that were already in my car -- Grateful Dead's Mars Hotel and the first Traveling Wilburys album. I got pretty tired of them west of the Mississippi. There are long stretches where there aren't many radio stations that I'd listen to. Had to stop and buy some tunes. Couldn't put that on the expenses, though.

 

[dixiehack]

As for music, the first time I did it, the paper paid to have the movers pack me and they got almost all the cassettes. I set off with just the two that were already in my car -- Grateful Dead's Mars Hotel and the first Traveling Wilburys album. I got pretty tired of them west of the Mississippi. There are long stretches where there aren't many radio stations that I'd listen to. Had to stop and buy some tunes. Couldn't put that on the expenses, though.

Which brings up a great point. Invest in satellite radio. Skip meals if necessary to do so.

 

[Bad Guy Zero]

If you're moving a significant distance and have a moving company handling your belongings look into an auto transportation service. They'll load your vehicle onto one of those car hauling trailers and transport it wherever you want. It'll save potentially several hundred [if not over a thousand] miles on your vehicle and allow you to regain a bit of your sanity.

 

[TrooperBari]

Hellfartdamn, I hate moving.

Of everything I've read, I agree with this the most. Moving is most definitely for sucks.

Googlaw — this is more for when you get there than getting there, but if at all possible, have some of your soon-to-be co-workers scout out living accommodations for you. It'll make settling in infinitely easier and those folks should know who's on the level and who to avoid.

As for the drive itself, Cosmo is exactly right with bringing your own munchies. Even investing in a Gigantor-sized tub of Cheezy Poofs will save you from loading up each time you stop for gas. Also, make sure you get out and stretch every 2-4 hours or so. I've done at least a dozen 1,000-plus mile drives in my life, so trust me when I say losing 5-10 minutes here and there beats feeling like the Tin Man when you get where you're going.

 

[Mayfly]

Hellfartdamn, I hate moving.

Of everything I've read, I agree with this the most. Moving is most definitely for sucks.

Googlaw — this is more for when you get there than getting there, but if at all possible, have some of your soon-to-be co-workers scout out living accommodations for you. It'll make settling in infinitely easier and those folks should know who's on the level and who to avoid.

As for the drive itself, Cosmo is exactly right with bringing your own munchies. Even investing in a Gigantor-sized tub of Cheezy Poofs will save you from loading up each time you stop for gas. Also, make sure you get out and stretch every 2-4 hours or so. I've done at least a dozen 1,000-plus mile drives in my life, so trust me when I say losing 5-10 minutes here and there beats feeling like the Tin Man when you get where you're going.

If you were going to Oz, I think it would feel pretty damn good.

 

[buckweaver]

Driven Atlanta to L.A. twice for moves, once each way. One of those was a solo trip, packing up everything I owned that would fit in my truck, discarding the rest, and rebuilding my life once I arrived. It's scary, but it's exhilarating.

And I hope for your sake this is the only one of those moves you'll ever have to make.

That said, here's what I learned:

- Take your time. If at all possible, do not rush into a move. I took four days to drive those 2,500 miles, and I was exhausted when I was done. If you can't go any farther, don't push it. Get a room, get some sleep and recharge for tomorrow. But like Frank said, experience Americana. It might be the only time you'll get to do it like this. Don't spend all day and all night on the road. Get out and do something, have some fun. (I made my first stop New Orleans -- slightly out of my way on I-10 -- because I had never been to Bourbon Street. It was well worth it.) Just take your time getting there; life will be fast enough once you do. Your employer will bug you to start as quickly as possible; don't fall for that. Take your time moving, take your time settling in. You won't get the time to once you start work.

- Sign up for AAA, or something that provides 24-hour emergency roadside service. Do it now -- and let them take care of any problems that arise. That's what they're there for. (On a different move, my rental truck broke down exactly halfway into my 16-hour trip. I was 8 hours away from anyone I knew, it was pitch-black outside and I was standing under a highway bridge in Gulfport, Miss. I called AAA, they got my truck towed to a hotel, I slept it off, got it fixed in the morning and was on my way. Nothing worse than trying to deal with those things yourself, when you've got 8,421 other things on your mind.)

- Watch out for driver's tan. West Texas got me there; spent 13 hours in the sun with my arm hanging out the window. Was burnt -- left arm only -- for two weeks afterward. ****ing hell.

- Watch out for state troopers. ****ing Texas again. ::)

- If you already have lined up a place to live when you get to your destination, great. (Don't forget to get your utilities turned on before you arrive!) ... If you don't, at least make sure you have a local hotel room booked up for about a week ... just in case you can't move in right away. The peace of mind of having somewhere to sleep the first few nights is very important.

- Use Craigslist for cheap furniture once you get a place. (I found a 3-drawer dresser for $5 that I still have. My sister got a couch for $20, I got one for $40.) And don't be afraid of Wal-Mart or Target do-it-yourself furniture (... and, of course, IKEA). I have an awesome 6' bookshelf that was $28 at Target. Sturdy as a rock.

 

[Cadet]

I echo the tips about bringing food, you'll save a ton of money. I'll add that books on CD are a great way to pass the time, and don't rule out the benefits of aromatherapy - get some peppermint hand lotion or essential oil, because the scent of peppermint will keep you awake and energized on the drive.

 

[User 1019]

I am extremely fortunate in this regard. All I have to do is make a few calls, head down to post to talk with the transportation folks, and be there when the movers come.

God, I don't miss moving ... at all.

 

[trifectarich]

It's tough to do a lot of driving at this time of the year, when darkness comes so early. I hope you have the luxury of taking your time and you don't need to do a lot of nighttime driving.

Good luck.

 

[WildBillyCrazyCat]

When your eyelids start to get heavy, stop at the nearest gas station and pound two Snickers bars and two Dr. Peppers. Keep the window rolled down no matter how chilly it gets.

You'll get at least 3-4 more hours out of yourself.

 

[spup1122]

When your eyelids start to get heavy, stop at the nearest gas station and pound two Snickers bars and two Dr. Peppers. Keep the window rolled down no matter how chilly it gets.

You'll get at least 3-4 more hours out of yourself.

That's ridiculous sorts of dangerous. If you get tired, just stop. Take a nap at a rest area or find a hotel room, but stop. Don't try to "get 3-4 more hours out of yourself." I'm sure lots of people don't want to lose you because you tried to use sugar, caffeine and cold to keep you awake.

 

[Pete Incaviglia]

I agree with everyone who says 'take your time' and 'enjoy' the trip.

I've gone from east coast to west and back again with a lengthy move in the middle.

Twice, I literally started my job on the day after I arrived.

Once, I took my time and enjoyed everything on the way. It was great.