Papa Lono, crazy ******* that he was, passed away a while back, but he is never far from my thoughts.
He was a true wild man, someone who stomped on the terra with the aggression of a heavyweight boxer and the reckless abandon of a high-stakes poker player. He lived his entire life locked and loaded, always ready for whatever life threw at him, which turned out to be way more than he deserved.
And he took no **** from anyone, ever.
When he graduated Catholic elementary school, the head nun looked at him and said, "Someday, you'll look back on these years as the best time of your life."
"Bull****," was his one-word reply. In front of his mother and father.
He used to deliver roses to strippers in the burlesque houses and bouquets to cancer patients in hospitals when he was seven years old and a year or two later was a courier for the local hoods who ran the numbers in the city.
As an 18-year-old kid, on his first night of boot camp in the Marines, he called out the drill instructor and picked a fight with him.
He was profane, hard-assed, uncontrollable and even in the best of times, tough to live with. But he raised six of us and did a damn fine job of it. He loved my mother, was a man of unflinching honesty and unquestioned integrity.
He taught me to honor my wife, love my children and above all else, be a stand-up guy, someone loved ones can count on when times are hard. Because sooner or later, they will be.
So, RIP, Dad.
I'll have one for you tonight.