Riptide
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Not at all. But nice try, lumpy.How many times have you been warned? Weren't you just warned last week, after tattling?
Not at all. But nice try, lumpy.How many times have you been warned? Weren't you just warned last week, after tattling?
If Kang's message offends me, I should remind myself that it's not personally directed at me. If it really gets under my skin, I probably already have insecurities and feelings of inadequacy related to body image and self-worth.
We stuff ourselves with bad food choices on the road to obesity and diabetes, all the while worshipping the physiques of celebrities and athletes. It's a recipe for disaster.
What about beer commercials?
Their messages are much more offensive than Maria Kang's.
This is exactly it.
I have mixed feelings on this whole affair. On one hand, I have posted on thread after thread after thread about how much **** smaller women take, my wife being a smaller woman. Like YF, I don't like the "genetic lottery" accusation. I'm not a woman, but I'm 5-foot-9 and tipped the scales at about 215 a few years ago. I don't carry it well, which is an understatement. I was chubby my whole life, but I had become obese. Not morbidly, but I was definitely obese. Now I maintain at about 150, and I do it by getting up before 4 a.m. every day and hitting the weights or treadmill, and trying to watch what I eat. No one is going to mistake me for a fitness model, but I'm fit, and I certainly didn't win the genetic lottery. Far from it. (I do think that this woman might have won the genetic energy lottery - I think I did, too - but I digress.)
That said, my wife is also a working mom. We have two children, a 4-year-old who is a beautiful little hellion, and a 10-month old whom she is diligently breast feeding. I didn't read Wonder Woman's story, but I imagine she's not breast feeding. It takes a lot out of a woman. She's also self-employed and, for all the work that three young children are, it's much different when you are answering to someone else outside the home each day.
I also cringe because this photo is just one more thing for mothers to feel bad about, and it's already a jungle out there. I hate being the you-don't-understand-if-you-don't-have-kids guy, but, yeah, you don't understand if you don't have kids. There needs to be some backlash against it, because sites like Pinterest are single-handedly driving the anti-depressant industry that YF rails against.
Bottom line: OOP is right. It's the words she used. Using the word "excuse" puts people on the defensive, because it has a perjorative connotation.
P.S. I liked the post about learning Mandarin. Yep. Any person could post something about their accomplishments while juggling things, and put other people down for it. My wife's students test through the roof. I suppose she could make a poster in which she holds up her 99 percentile student scores and sneer at stay-at-home moms for it. That would go over really well.
Bottom line: People have different interests. Just because you don't look like Alex Morgan doesn't mean that you're eating Bon-Bons and watching soaps all day.
We stuff ourselves with bad food choices on the road to obesity and diabetes. ...
What about beer commercials?
Their messages are much more offensive than Maria Kang's.
The headline less than an inch to the left of the "body positive" model:
"Strong & Hot: Get Toned With DIY Barre."
Well, these are certainly some interesting posts from the thread on the "What's Your Excuse?" mom thread.
It seems that one poster was more than OK with Maria Kang's fat-shaming, and chided people for "stuff[ing] ourselves with bad food choices on the road to obesity and diabetes," while another had mixed emotions because of the message it sent to women.
Why, it's almost like the former adjusts his opinion based upon whether he can try to troll/post-stalk someone he doesn't like!
Look: I get your frustration for shallow, sheeplike perfectionism.
I guess there are a couple things here:
1. There are bean poles in this country and there are obese/overweight people in this country. Then there is a vast middle of people in this country. I'm a little perplexed as to why, in reaction to criticism of the bean poles, these magazines are seeming to exclusively tout "plus-sized" models. Why not some people from the vast middle?
2. It seems perfectly reasonable to me that a fitness magazine would feature fit models. Not Victoria's Secret models. But fit models. The men and women on the cover of running magazines look very healthy to me.
I certainly like the message that anyone can start running. We all know that the first step is the toughest. But, again, if you're running four days a week and you look like the woman on the cover, you're doing something wrong.
I certainly like the message that anyone can start running. We all know that the first step is the toughest. But, again, if you're running four days a week and you look like the woman on the cover, you're doing something wrong.
Also: Particular to running, the new conventional wisdom is it doesn't do all that much for weight loss, as opposed to weight workouts or high-intensity training.
One plus-size model in 12 years of publication is "exclusively tout[ing] 'plus-sized' models"?
This isn't true. Many people, particularly as they move into their 40s and beyond, are going to be large as a natural state.
I know there's some point here wrapped up in your head, but as usual, I can't figure out exactly what it is.
I know there's some point here wrapped up in your head, but as usual, I can't figure out exactly what it is.
There are bean poles in this country and there are obese/overweight people in this country. Then there is a vast middle of people in this country. I'm a little perplexed as to why, in reaction to criticism of the bean poles, these magazines are seeming to exclusively tout "plus-sized" models. Why not some people from the vast middle?
She's 5'3", 160 pounds. That IS the vast middle.