As someone your age, I have a different perspective than a lot of the people in this thread. I graduated last year, had a few summer internships, worked at the local paper while I was in college and got pretty much the same advice you're getting.
The beauty of the internet is that there is a community out there for whatever you're interested in. For me, it was basketball. Most NBA coverage in newspapers comes from sports writers who are generalists; as someone who played pretty seriously my whole life, I felt there was a void of people talking about the sport the way me and my friends talked about it as players.
So I started up a blog, began writing and most importantly, pushed my stuff in the blogosphere everyday. I joined team message boards and fan blogs for pretty much every NBA team and a lot of the major college basketball programs and posted links to what I wrote. I cross-posted my articles at Bleacher Report (not the greatest site, but they'll pay you if they like your stuff) and I e-mailed the editors of the NBA blogs at ESPN (True Hoop), Yahoo (Ball Don't Lie) and SI (Point Forward) constantly. Over about eight months, I built a decent-sized following and am now working as a basketball reporter/columnist for a few of the biggest sports sites out there (I even got credentialed for the NBA Finals!). If you have a unique voice as a writer and you're putting good stuff out there, people will find you.
It took me about six months before I even got a paycheck, but you just have to look at it as an unpaid internship basically. Write for anyplace that has an audience and is willing to post your stuff, even if it's for free. The good thing is there are a lot of different ways to make money with your writing/editing skills -- I've written ad copy, copy-edited financial documents and helped kids write essays for college and grad school.
I know at least a half-dozen other people our age scratching out a living on the basketball blogosphere, and I'd guess it's a similar situation in almost any field. Example: the main author of Baseball Time In Arlington, where I get most of my Texas Rangers news, also works at Baseball Prospectus now.
shockey said:
if you have no 'pull' but are oozing with talent and confidence and a healthy amount of arrogance, go for it. have a plan; maybe give yourself a deadline on how much time you should give to chasing the dream. if you have a way to pay the rent (or am as lucky as i was and living at home during my copyboy period) go for it.
This is absolutely true. You've got to believe in yourself. Also, let's be reality -- I know MBA's working at call centers, law school graduates living back at home, Ivy League graduates sleeping on couches in NYC trying to break into finance. There isn't guaranteed money in any field, so don't let that stop you from doing what you want to do.
Another thing is, I'm not even sure if newspapers are where you want to be going these days. I interned at what used to be one of the best sports sections in the country (SportsDay) a few years back, and it seems like everyone I knew over with there is working for some arm of ESPN now.