MLB beat writers, spouses

[Wonderlic]

Serious question/topic of conversation for the MLB beat writers here. I'm talking about the ones who cover most of the 162-game regular season, with all the travel that entails, plus playoffs and all of spring training. Are you married? How do you find the time to spend with your spouse and, if you have them, your kids?

Seems these beats are best suited for the unattached, but I imagine there are married reporters out there who make it work. ... Right?

 

[hankschu]

Serious question/topic of conversation for the MLB beat writers here. I'm talking about the ones who cover most of the 162-game regular season, with all the travel that entails, plus playoffs and all of spring training. Are you married? How do you find the time to spend with your spouse and, if you have them, your kids?

Seems these beats are best suited for the unattached, but I imagine there are married reporters out there who make it work. ... Right?

There's no easy answer to this because every marriage is different, but the one common thread is that the beat writer's spouse has to be an independent-minded person for the marriage to have a chance to work.

Beyond that, I've always insisted that I have one weekend day off when the team is home plus the ability to take a trip or two off. I think most sports editors prefer that, too, mainly to prevent a boatload of comp time and to give the backup or national writer a chance to hit the road. I also went home for a time during spring training or had the missus come down to Arizona.

I never had children so I can't say how difficult that is, but I've seen the strain with other beat guys.

Truth is, few married-with-children writers remain on the beat very long. Either that, or they get divorced. It's important to have a sports editor understand that you as a writer have a better chance of staying on the beat long-term if the paper can make accommodations for your needs during the long season. I've been fortunate in my quarter-century of doing this to have editors like this.

And now the disclaimer: I'm divorced, though the issue was not my job or being on the road.

 

[Drip]

Serious question/topic of conversation for the MLB beat writers here. I'm talking about the ones who cover most of the 162-game regular season, with all the travel that entails, plus playoffs and all of spring training. Are you married? How do you find the time to spend with your spouse and, if you have them, your kids?

Seems these beats are best suited for the unattached, but I imagine there are married reporters out there who make it work. ... Right?

Serious question/topic of conversation for the MLB beat writers here. I'm talking about the ones who cover most of the 162-game regular season, with all the travel that entails, plus playoffs and all of spring training. Are you married? How do you find the time to spend with your spouse and, if you have them, your kids?

Seems these beats are best suited for the unattached, but I imagine there are married reporters out there who make it work. ... Right?

There's no easy answer to this because every marriage is different, but the one common thread is that the beat writer's spouse has to be an independent-minded person for the marriage to have a chance to work.

Beyond that, I've always insisted that I have one weekend day off when the team is home plus the ability to take a trip or two off. I think most sports editors prefer that, too, mainly to prevent a boatload of comp time and to give the backup or national writer a chance to hit the road. I also went home for a time during spring training or had the missus come down to Arizona.

I never had children so I can't say how difficult that is, but I've seen the strain with other beat guys.

Truth is, few married-with-children writers remain on the beat very long. Either that, or they get divorced. It's important to have a sports editor understand that you as a writer have a better chance of staying on the beat long-term if the paper can make accommodations for your needs during the long season. I've been fortunate in my quarter-century of doing this to have editors like this.

And now the disclaimer: I'm divorced, though the issue was not my job or being on the road.

Hank nailed it pretty well. I will add that it takes a special woman to be married to a sports journalist. The mistake made by many is that they tend to be married to their jobs or beats. That is a big mistake whether you are covering the pros or preps. Family comes first.

 

[CarlSpackler]

When I was an intern in a MLB press box the first thing I noticed was that all the guys were either single, divorced or in a marriage rocky enough to sometimes warrant distressed phone calls during a game. Then again maybe that's what all marriages are like. Can't speak from experience there.

 

[Mark2010]

Agreed. Hard choices there. Marriage isn't for everyone. Neither is that kind of a beat.

I've seen more than one marriage torn apart by sports jobs that weren't even that stressful. Only think I can say is the two parties need to have some heart to heart talks and, if they can't reach an agreement, then one will have decide where his/her priorities are.

 

[Tucsondriver]

Tough life. Dream beat would be non-traveling for the most part, with maybe some divisional games and pennant race stuff. 3-6 short road trips would be cool, 15-plus probably unbearable. Hard enough maintaining a social life when I traveled fulltime. Can't imagine what it would be like for someone with a spouse, let alone kids too. Much respect for those who can keep it together, and their spouses too.

 

[Screwball]

One other thought: In the old days, baseball beat writers covered almost all the games with the knowledge they would be off all winter, except for the winter meetings. The beat is 24-7-365 now, thanks to free agency, the Internet and Twitter. Some papers lean on writers to take time off during the season so they can be available all winter.

 

[da man]

One other thought: In the old days, baseball beat writers covered almost all the games with the knowledge they would be off all winter, except for the winter meetings. The beat is 24-7-365 now, thanks to free agency, the Internet and Twitter. Some papers lean on writers to take time off during the season so they can be available all winter.

This is very relevant. I remember years ago our baseball writer the fact that he built up massive amounts of airline miles and hotel points and had a month off to use them (he'd take vacations to places like Hawaii). Now it seems like the beat that never ends.

 

[Drip]

One other thought: In the old days, baseball beat writers covered almost all the games with the knowledge they would be off all winter, except for the winter meetings. The beat is 24-7-365 now, thanks to free agency, the Internet and Twitter. Some papers lean on writers to take time off during the season so they can be available all winter.

This is very relevant. I remember years ago our baseball writer the fact that he built up massive amounts of airline miles and hotel points and had a month off to use them (he'd take vacations to places like Hawaii). Now it seems like the beat that never ends.

There are ways to get opportunities to use those Marriott points and other perks. There are also ways to get days off. For example, get away home games and the first games back from a road trip are always days for the back up guys. All-Star breaks are great for the back up guys too. Thanksgiving Day to the second week in December is good for a vacation.

 

[Mark2010]

I really don't think I would like covering one beat year round. I understand there are advantages, such as familiarity with sources and such.

But normally by the time a season ends, I'm pretty darn worn out with that sport and the people and am eager for something different. Just me, though.

 

[accguy]

You're also seeing more and more papers go to a split-beat situation where it is somewhat difficult to know who is the primary beat writer and who is the backup.

If you split the road trips, it makes it more bearable for the people involved. Also means they get less comp time and are more available in the offseason.

 

[Screwball]

There are also ways to get days off. For example, get away home games and the first games back from a road trip are always days for the back up guys.

Those are days the beat writer is traveling, to the first city of the road trip or back from the last city of the trip. Neither one should be considered a day off.

Thanksgiving Day to the second week in December is good for a vacation.

Absolutely not. That might be the busiest time of the winter, with the run-up to the winter meetings and the meetings themselves.

 

[Drip]

There are also ways to get days off. For example, get away home games and the first games back from a road trip are always days for the back up guys.

Those are days the beat writer is traveling, to the first city of the road trip or back from the last city of the trip. Neither one should be considered a day off.

Thanksgiving Day to the second week in December is good for a vacation.

Absolutely not. That might be the busiest time of the winter, with the run-up to the winter meetings and the meetings themselves.

Getaway day can be used an off day. Thanksgiving to the second week week, while that is a busy time, taking a break prior to the winter meetings is a good idea to prevent burnout. Backup guys should be able to handle the work.
Hey, it's not an exact science but the bottom line is to get a break. You have to squeeze the time in somewhere.

 

[Mizzougrad96]

I covered baseball when I was 23-24 and I cannot imagine being gone that much with a wife and kids.

Covering the NFL wasn't too bad. There are 10-12 weekend trips and 3-4 longer trips with the Super Bowl, combine, owners' meetings and maybe the Senior Bowl. It's a lot, but nothing compared to spring training and 81 road games.

 

[Drip]

I covered baseball when I was 23-24 and I cannot imagine being gone that much with a wife and kids.

Covering the NFL wasn't too bad. There are 10-12 weekend trips and 3-4 longer trips with the Super Bowl, combine, owners' meetings and maybe the Senior Bowl. It's a lot, but nothing compared to spring training and 81 road games.

I always loved the road. Just took it as part of the job.