Yes, recruiting coverage can be icky. But part of that is because of the current saturation of it. I don't remember feeling that way when it was, say, just Tom Lemming and a couple other independent dudes beating the bushes. The kids took the occasional phone call, those guys relayed the info to everyone else through their toll numbers and magazines and that was about it. I bet the kids even enjoyed getting the attention. Now these kids take as many phone calls from recruiting sites and, increasingly, newspaper beat writers as they do coaches actually recruiting them. They avoid your calls, which makes you feel like a stalker, of course, all in service to your readership.
Every time I want to completely rag on people who follow recruiting, I think of myself, thumbing through my "Baseball America Prospect Guide" during spring training baseball games. I know the difference is that those guys are 22-25 years old, but the concept driving it is the same - "Who's next?"
Oh, and a kid verbally committing, I'm sorry, but it's news in this day and age. This isn't 1953 where Furman Bisher or whoever could refuse to print a kid's name until he appeared in a game for the Dawgs. At least 90 percent of the kids who verbal do end up at that school. I would say it's closer to 95 percent.
The school I cover had all of one "decommitment" this year. That's it. I imagine it might be different in the SEC, though.
Like anything else, sports is more fun and engaging the more you know about what you're watching. At least that's how it is for a lot of people. I think that the people who follow it are pretty disconnected from the parts of it that make us uncomfortable. They can come off as nuts, but with the media acting as sort of a firewall for them, they're relatively oblivious to the stalking-a-16-year-old aspect of it. They don't see the sausage getting made. It's an extension of following the team, no different to them than someone knowing which Dodgers third base prospect might develop some power (Blake DeWitt, BTW).