To clarify my posting so close to the wedding, I was locked in my hotel room. My wife and I did so many things untraditionally we decided to try our best not to see each other.
I was only one floor away from where we got married (and our reception site, courtesy of Tropical Depression Barry), so it wasn't like I had to drive real far. She actually made a crack during the honeymoon about whether I was going to give SJ land an update.
Anyway, other than the storm -- which negated what would have been a great outdoor wedding -- everything went well. The handful of people we were worried about behaved, her dad somehow held himself together despite watching his youngest get married and all but one of our vendors were damn near perfect.
Now, because it deserves its own thread, I will now shed SJ land into what types of doors are allowable for Cosmo should he ever come to your house.