For me, probably time.
My mom was diagnosed with terminal breast cancer in the fall of 2001. My dad quit his well-paying contract gig with Microsoft the following summer to take care of her full-time. I came home every weekend both to spend time with them and to give relief to my dad. In the spring of 2003, I quit my job and moved back home to help take care of my mom in her final months, plus to be with my dad so he wouldn't be lonely in the aftermath.
When my older niece (my brother's first child) was born in 2000, I gave my brother a copy of the then-new Don Henley "Inside Job" CD, since it included the song "Taking You Home."
Speaking of that niece, she turns 16 in a couple of years. I'm hoping to give her my Honda (which I got from my dad last summer) as a Sweet 16 birthday gift.
My mom was diagnosed with terminal breast cancer in the fall of 2001. My dad quit his well-paying contract gig with Microsoft the following summer to take care of her full-time. I came home every weekend both to spend time with them and to give relief to my dad. In the spring of 2003, I quit my job and moved back home to help take care of my mom in her final months, plus to be with my dad so he wouldn't be lonely in the aftermath.
When my older niece (my brother's first child) was born in 2000, I gave my brother a copy of the then-new Don Henley "Inside Job" CD, since it included the song "Taking You Home."
Speaking of that niece, she turns 16 in a couple of years. I'm hoping to give her my Honda (which I got from my dad last summer) as a Sweet 16 birthday gift.