Girls...as friends?

I think this is the key right here. My best friend is also a female, but i am not her "type" and she is not mine. But we talk all the time, drink like fish and curse like sailors. It's a good match for everything except the bedroom. And I can ask her style questions and not feel like an idiot.

 

I still think your "bone it like you own it" ranks higher.

 

It's definitely possible. I have several close girl friends. It's harder to transition from friend to relationship partner if you have a girl as a friend already.

 

All but one female friend in my life I either had a relationship with, wanted a relationship with, or thought about what it would be like to have a relationship with.

This female friend was one of the best friends I ever had. I never, ever thought about her as anything but a friend. People thought we were a couple, and when they would bring it up, we would look at each other and say, "Ewww ..."

It's possible, but it obviously doesn't happen often.

 

Sorry, it's not possible. All you need to know about this topic is in the first 30 minutes of When Harry Met Sally.

 

I'm calling BS on that one.

Are straight men attracted to every single woman they come across? Are women attracted to every single man they come across? To suggest that a straight man and a straight woman can't be platonic friends is to somehow hint that the undercurrent of attraction would always exist. We know that isn't true.

 

Women and men are much too different to be friends in the true sense of the word. think about the real friends you've had across your life...people you could share almost anything with. these sorts of things don't cross gender lines.
additionally, yes, as Billy Crystal pointed out, you want to nail every woman.

 

Maybe not for you, but that doesn't mean it applies to everyone. What a closed-minded way of looking at world. Sure, there are some things that are awkward to discuss between men and women, but if you find the right friend, that all goes away.

I have plenty of female friends that I don't want to nail. I wouldn't even think about it, their friendship matters a lot more to me than one time in the sack with them. It's men that thing this way that make it hard though, women don't trust that some men aren't constantly thinking about getting into their pants.

 

Some guys just can't bring it, I guess.

 

So you honestly want to nail every woman you meet? If not, then there is nothing standing in between you and being friends with a woman. If you do want to nail every woman you meet, then good for you, I'm just glad I don't have such low standards.