Finally Understanding Infidelity at Middle Age

Went to a public service for a major Asian American figure on West Coast. He died under murky circumstances that indicate he was not faithful to his wife/wedding vows. I hadn’t judged him but of course that detail stuck in my mind. However after listening to all that he had done for the lower income community was amazing and IMHO I finally understand that people make mistakes and infidelity should not mean I forget what a person does in the greater sense, be disappointed in their lapse but I will do better to remember their greater contributions. This applies for me to all, not just those I support.