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Need some advice on long distance relationships

Discussion in 'Anything goes' started by KYSportsWriter, Dec 27, 2006.

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  1. Flying Headbutt

    Flying Headbutt Moderator Staff Member

    Have your puppy love fun for another couple of weeks. Reality will hit you, but it doesn't mean you can't enjoy it for now.
     
    Flying Headbutt, Dec 27, 2006
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  2. KYSportsWriter

    KYSportsWriter Well-Known Member

    Buddah, I have never been more sure of ANYTHING in my life. I know I'm only 21 and she's 20 and that's saying a lot, but this girl is the girl of my dreams. Like someone told me, when you know you know.
     
    KYSportsWriter, Dec 27, 2006
    #14
  3. Flying Headbutt

    Flying Headbutt Moderator Staff Member

    Dude, I'll bet you 50 bucks you're way wrong. After one week you know? You must be high as a kite.
     
    Flying Headbutt, Dec 27, 2006
    #15
  4. audreyld

    audreyld Guest

    For your own sanity, slow it down, man. Seriously.
     
    audreyld, Dec 27, 2006
    #16
  5. Cadet

    Cadet Guest

    Sportswriters are not known for their brilliance in matters of the heart. There are many war stories among us here.

    I echo UT... take it slow. Even if your heart is telling you one thing, there are many factors that have to come together for things to work out. Timing is one of them.
     
    Cadet, Dec 27, 2006
    #17
  6. Pancamo

    Pancamo Active Member

    If I moved for every girl I knew a week when I was 21, I would have been moving every damn week. Dude, sorry to pee in your cheerios but you won't know this girl in a month. She might be a wonderful person but one week doesn't mean love unless you are in 3rd grade.
     
    Pancamo, Dec 27, 2006
    #18
  7. spup1122

    spup1122 Guest

    I guess Doc and I are the exception to the rule.
     
    spup1122, Dec 27, 2006
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  8. Trouser_Buddah

    Trouser_Buddah Active Member

    KY,
    Nobody wants to have their parade rained on when they are feeling the way that you do, I understand that.
    But I think everyone here over the age of, say, 25, has been in a similar position, long distance aside, where they felt something was really special. Looking back, there have been several relationships where certain things happened and I said to myself, "This has to be the one."

    Obviously for me, that turned out not to be the case. The bottom line is, what are the benefits of hurrying? Not many...

    The benefits of slowing down and letting things develop are great...

    Again, good luck.
     
    Trouser_Buddah, Dec 27, 2006
    #20
  9. Flying Headbutt

    Flying Headbutt Moderator Staff Member

    I believe this was on the slate of stone that made up the 11th-15th commandments that God gave Moses. However when Moses got to the bottom of the mountain and saw his people worshipping golden cows, that unfortunately was the slate that got slammed down into the ground in rage.

    For shame too, since the later five make it real difficult to have all sorts of ribald fun.
     
    Flying Headbutt, Dec 27, 2006
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  10. audreyld

    audreyld Guest

    I'm not saying it won't work out. I'm just saying he won't go wrong by slowing it down a little (or a lot).
     
    audreyld, Dec 27, 2006
    #22
  11. 21

    21 Well-Known Member

    Don't you live together?
     
    21, Dec 27, 2006
    #23
  12. spup1122

    spup1122 Guest

    Now, but I dropped my job to move out here and we knew immediately and nothing has ever made us question that.
     
    spup1122, Dec 27, 2006
    #24
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