Life takes a turn for the weird

I disagree. I'm saying if someone else's convictions bother them so much they won't date that person, they are being shallow or close-minded or xenophobic.
"Good" was a poor choice of words on my part, but I think Jay is limiting himself.

 

You might as well ask Lewis and Clark why they did it.

 

She's waited 34 years to get some ass.

She can wait a couple days while Jay gets his head around the bombshell she just dropped.

That said, in general, I agree. If you enjoy sex even a little bit, this isn't the girl for you.

Hit the road.

 

He thinks she thinks of it as a 'husband tryout.' About the only dates that aren't tryouts for the future are one-offs.

Is it about dating and getting to know someone? Or is it about getting laid?

 

It's not the convictions, its how they will affect you and your life. My co-worker wants to be a virgin? Fine, more power to him! The guy I'm dating wants to be a virgin? That directly affects me. Then I get to have a say in whether or not I'm OK with that, and make choices accordingly.

 

What she said.

 

Isn't it usually about both?

 

Nice job, Flashie...

 

It might be a little weird, but there's a reason you've gone out five times. If this is your only hang up so far, I wouldn't throw the baby out with the bathwater. Hell, she's got to be wondering if waiting 34 years is worth it, and you might have a wild one nearing her sexual peak.

 

I agree with that.
But you just might miss out on your soul mate (or best potential spouse or whatever) if you're not willing to at least consider someone whose choices/convictions/etc. are different from yours.

 

Jay, what if she hadn't dropped that bombshell on you? What if when y'all began getting hot-and-heavy she begged off by just saying she wasn't ready yet, would you go out with her again?

 

Obviously not for everyone.