GF advice needed

Herpes is truly the gift that keeps on giving.



If you really like her, stay with her. Sex with a condom isn't that bad if you haven't had sex with her without it. You won't be able to tell the difference because you didn't have one before the other. It's like you are eating a hot dog for the first time. You don't know what it tastes like with ketchup or mustard. Suppose you just have ketchup and that's all you have. You are happy with it, you don't have access to the mustard, so the ketchup tastes pretty damn good.

 

Learn the HPV facts... most girls have it, most guys are carriers and don't even know it. It's not a "get it once and you're stuck" thing like herpes or HIV.

Herpes is a whole 'nother ball of wax, though. Eesh.

 

More importantly, make sure you know how this will affect your ATM status.

 

Bone out.

 

You saying he should just finish on her grille?

 

You need to learn all you can about the HPV/herpes situation and move carefully after that.

It will be tough for this not to affect your feelings, so this is a real man-sized challenge for you.

 

That was my initial reaction, too, but I completely believe her that she's only slept with two men. She might never have used a condom (she is, after all, quite religious), but I'm sure she's telling the truth about her partners. Knowing her, and seeing her tell me the stories, I know that's true.

Oh, and "Kevlar condom" might be the greatest two-word response in the history of this message board.

Keep up the laughs and the advice everyone.

 

(she is, after all, quite religious)
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This has absolutely no bearing on the situation at hand.

 

This was boyfriend #2


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"has only slept with the two men she had as boyfriends"

So, she's banging 100% of the boyfriends. Quite the average there.

 

You had that saved, poin?

 

This has absolutely no bearing on the situation at hand.
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Actually, 3_B_F, it might, but we can keep that to another thread...

Vats of Asian Dong, anyone?