Dating Advice?

Then we could have told him advicey things.

 

Drinks.

Dinner's too formal and can come with too many expectations at this point. You're shooting the shit and sniffing each other's butts. Although, if you have a drink or two and then you both get hungry, that's cool, do it. That is, unless you're at Olive Garden.

Let the game come to you, son, but be aware of when it's coming.

 

Just don't text her pics of your cock. You're not at that stage yet.

 

Ask her out to drinks during a weeknight, preferably Thursday, like someone mentioned. It's not necessarily a date night, but it's close enough to get into the atmosphere of one.

 

What, exactly, were you friends "torn on"? This chick wants to show you her chi-chis.

 

thanks everyone for your advice. i'm going to go for a weeknight next week - way too much pressure for grabbing drinks to do that on a weekend night and kind of short notice for this thursday (not to mention I'm busy) so will try next week. will let all know how it goes.

 

one friend told me she was just being friendly because she's in sales and that's what sales people do...but the more i think about it, she kind of went out of her way to suggest grabbing drinks (and contacting me in the first place) so it should have been more obvious. hope it goes well - i had a great time the first night with her.

 

This thread could have been so much more.

 

We now have proof positive.

Some men really do need an engraved invitation.

 

Don't go in expecting too much, because you'll just let yourself down if you're expecting it to be romantic, but she's just out for drinks. Enjoy yourself, have fun and if you get the vibe that it is a romantic setting, there you go.

 

TWSS

 

I love you.

And you.