Dating Advice?

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she's definitely interested, dude. the hand-written note to say she enjoyed getting to chat you up says it all. go for it. no waiting. no games. just ask her to dinner, just the two of you, and see where it goes...

 

I'm not entirely certain how she could be any more clear short of asking you out herself.

 

Haha thanks for the outside perspective. I've had bad luck misinterpreting women before so always second guess these situations.

 

I think your advice here is far too subtle...

 

well, i understand some guys can be gun-shy after misreading signals in the past. but i don't think there's much chance of that here. besides, my attitude eventually became, 'screw it, what do i have to fear?' you ask her to dinner she says no, let's just be friends? big whoop.

 

Oh, that's Headbutt. A Terrapin who refuses to come out of his shell.

 

Goddamn, how I wish smallpotatoes had started this thread.

 

alright so it's pretty clear that i should ask her out. now should I do drinks as she suggests...less pressure or suggest dinner?

And is it too soon to suggest something this week (Friday/Thursday/Weekend)?

 

Drinks. I think it's early enough to ask about the weekend, but that's a big night. Might be too close to Thursday, but give it a shot if you want.

Or say "Hey, I'd love to grab drinks next week. What night's good for you?"